This is about the Son of a Bitch that hurt you. The one that keeps being mean, hurts your feelings and constantly disappoints you. That rat bastard!! Unfortunately, I am talking about you…

If this is the first time someone has done any of these things to you, then you are fine. Walk away from the relationship now and I won’t call you any names. Or if someone is abusive, then that person should be shot. (oh, dealing with violence with violence isn’t probably the answer)

But, that’s not the case, is it? You’ve sat there, just like I have and taken it time and time again. We keep thinking that we can change the person we are dealing with, get them to magically stop disappointing us and make them do everything our hearts desire from them. Now, look back in your past…how many times has that worked? (I am sure that sometimes it has and that there are some relationships worth working on and with the right tools things can change, but this is my blog, so I get to say what I want!!)

We can’t keep blaming the other person if we are the ones allowing them to treat us this way. It’s not their fault anymore, we have not set up the rules and guidelines for ourselves.

So, here’s my advice: Whatever you would say to the person hurting you, say to yourself!! Walk away before you lose respect for yourself because you can’t ever walk away from yourself! Be the person you would want to be with. If you want someone who is kind and loving to you, then prove to yourself that you can be that way. Stand up for yourself. Like I’ve said before, your ‘mate’ has already proved that he or she won’t…