I think a person’s attitude and actions towards Valentine’s Day is very indicative of his or her view on romance in general.

Valentine’s Day is a holiday geared towards girls. Boys, before you yell at me, let me finish! I believe that the guy should do the initial Valentine-zing, Then, I think the girl should step up TOO! (This is like our Super Bowl.) If you ask her to dinner, it would be sweet for the girl to have cupcakes or something that lets you know that she was thinking of you too.

Valentine’s Day isn’t about extravagant dinners, the biggest bouquet of flowers or two dozen baked brownies. It is about showing the one you care about, well that you care! A single red rose, coffee already made when you get up, a bath drawn when you get home.

Here’s the thing, it doesn’t take money, it doesn’t take elaborate surprises, it just takes thoughtfulness with a little romance stuck in there.

So this goes both ways, look at how you’ve been shown that you are cared about on this Hallmark Holiday 😉 and really think about it. It may be small, but it’s all you REALLY need to know or it may be nothing and that is also something you may need to REALLY know.

This may be the way you realize that you have the most wonderful person in the world or this may be the way you realize that you will constantly be disappointed.

I hope you all have the wonderful ones, but if you don’t, go out and find your wonderful one!

Things to consider today: 1. Do you love YOURSELF today? If not, this about why that may be and use today to work on fixing that. 2. Maybe today may not be what you hoped for, but one day, you will have such an amazing Valentine’s Day with an unbelievable person and realize that it made all of the single days worth the wait!

~Me~